This cannot possibly be what God intended, how can a man profess his love and never act upon it. Love is an action word and to date our love has no action.
What can I do? I refuse to be in a relationship by myself, but I am losing the will to fight for a relationship that only I want to save.
Life is too short for me to deal with a commitment phobia. I want everything I do to be unto God. I am a good woman and I deserve better an occasional text or phone call.
I understand hard work, but regardless of how many hours you work the pay will never change. Tired of the slow lane=waiting for an adult to grow up and commit does not equal me in a successful relationship.
I am tired of the back and forth, either you love me or you don't. It's really that simple. Marriage is a serious commitment and if you cannot commit now, you won't be able to do it in a marriage.
I am just stating facts people change because they want to not because you want them to change.
Please believe if this is what God intended then you will change and start showing love in its true sense. If not then you will have to find yourself another conquest.
I refuse to be a chick you pick up when you feel like it.
All I can say is: On to the next who will replace you because God will restore and replace, if this is the path you choose!
This letter is the beginning of my release. Once I release this to you I will finally be free from your hold. I started to look at you and realized for the first time, I was nothing more than an overnight flight for you. You had no intention of making a round trip, you had a one way ticket the whole time. I face this truth with much pain, but I will never regret the time I spent with you.
So I look back at you one last time, to make sure you realize the consequences of taking the next flight to a new destination. Well you made your decision and chose to pursue new lands. You may have been just passing through for a season, but I stand firm on my one pass rule, make sure that once you have stamped your passport that you remember this voyage, because if you ever intend to return, this destination will no longer be on the radar.
Love,
Your One Way Trip
Today I sit at my desk at little troubled by this intense feeling of uneasiness. I ask myself what could be the cause of this great distress. As I sit and ponder the events of my day, I realize that I am giving way too much thought to the situation.
Moment of Honesty:Someone's got to take the lead tonight who's it gonna be?
The situation is the cause of my stress, you see yesterday I had my mind set to release the stress. I was playing the game with patience waiting the for the next move, well if the game does not pick up pace someone will surely lose. I know that as humans we don't like to show emotion, but that's the only way to play today.
I believe in Show N Tell, because our thoughts become words, our words become actions. So why not represent your true feelings. For if you are true to your self you never have to worry about anyone or anything proving otherwise.
I sit at my desk as I am now relieved I have said my piece, but I leave my notepad a little blue, to think the answer to question was so simple, but in a game when both players are waiting for the other make the next move, progress can never begin.
I am in my Alicia Keys mode, what if we did the Unthinkable, maybe we could actually win.
This post is for all the Ladies who really feel themselves!!
Time is of the essence, never resist the urge to compliment yourself. Never doubt your beauty, no matter your shade, size, or faults you are beautiful.
Beautiful you are! Never let anyone tell you different. Live your life in the words of another Beautiful sister, like its Golden!
See everyone morning you awake, you should be thankful for the beautiful woman looking back at you. God made you beautiful and don't you dare deny it.
I don't know about anyone else, but today I am definitely feeling me!
Ladies why do we continue to carry the same luggage everywhere we go?
Isn't it time to unpack your luggage and get rid of some of the contents. Why keep enduring the same hurt and pain from the past in every relationship? You have got to throw every negative thing in your suitcase away. Every guy will not be the same, but you can not expect too much of a change if you keep taking the same luggage on every trip.
Situations happen take these and learn from them, do not limit yourself or try to limit the love of others by bringing extra baggage into every situation. Do Not I Repeat, Do Not Be A Pack Rat.
Learn from your past and move forward, shake off everything that is weighing you down. Please take the time to get to know yourself, and began a relationship of self-discovery and self-love. You must know your worth, if you don't know your strengths, the wrong person can definitely identify your weaknesses.
Get to know yourself and love yourself. Release your excess baggage and Flow Freely in your new found freedom.
"I look back at my life, I have no regrets only Praise. I Rejoice because God chose me, He gave me the courage and boldness to stand in the midst of pain and fear. I can only speak for myself , I know who I am and I know where came from. I know that it only because of God that I am the person I see in the mirror. He saw through my past and loved me unconditionally. I am forever grateful He chose me!!!!"
The heart is an organ that most associate with love. Lets take a look at Love, what does it mean and who really truly uses it in the right context these days. I know where to find true love. All I have to do is seek my source, He will always make the way for me. I am looking to the only one who I can trust with my heart. My heart is precious and will only be given to the one deserving of it. I have no time for posers and props. Yes I said Props. You know what a prop is, a man who will stand in your way blocking the access of all possible mates, not because he wants you, but because he is a hater who needs no motivation. He will date and peruse the streets, but will make sure to be in your way just long enough to make sure he accomplishes his goal of being a blocker. So Ladies beware of posers and kick those kickstands out of your life.
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